{"id":39352,"date":"2021-02-05T00:02:09","date_gmt":"2021-02-04T22:02:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/?p=39352"},"modified":"2021-02-05T00:40:19","modified_gmt":"2021-02-04T22:40:19","slug":"in-an-ideal-world-2462","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/in-an-ideal-world-2462\/?lang=en","title":{"rendered":"In an ideal world . . . (DON MIGUEL RUIZ)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We humans are certainly made our mark on this planet. And yet, if we were asked what<\/p>\n<p>we had to show for humanity\u2019s years<\/p>\n<p>of evolution, what would we say?<\/p>\n<p>Would we say that we\u2019re free of<\/p>\n<p>worry and conflict? Would we say we<\/p>\n<p>finally understand how to be the best<\/p>\n<p>humans we can be? It would be wonderful to say that our beliefs no longer<\/p>\n<p>drive us to do terrible things. It would<\/p>\n<p>be great to say that our minds no<\/p>\n<p>longer wage their internal wars. It<\/p>\n<p>would be nice to say that humans<\/p>\n<p>have become far too wise to turn against each other. It would be nice to<\/p>\n<p>say that about our species, but we<\/p>\n<p>cannot\u2014not yet, at least.<\/p>\n<p>In an ideal world, humans get<\/p>\n<p>along with each other for their own<\/p>\n<p>benefit and for the benefit of humanity. In an ideal community, people<\/p>\n<p>cooperate in order to prosper, and<\/p>\n<p>they appreciate their good fortune.<\/p>\n<p>They value life and care for the land<\/p>\n<p>that nurtures them. Ideally, they respect themselves and everyone else.<\/p>\n<p>In an ideal family, children are<\/p>\n<p>made to feel safe and appreciated. Parents are inspired teachers and vigilant<\/p>\n<p>protectors. The elderly continue to be productive. Groups of people form<\/p>\n<p>societies, of course, but no society<\/p>\n<p>tries to undermine any other. To-gether, they build greater commu-<\/p>\n<p>nities, and together they ensure the<\/p>\n<p>well-being of every citizen.<\/p>\n<p>In this world of our imagination,<\/p>\n<p>governments may still exist. An ideal<\/p>\n<p>government presides over a country<\/p>\n<p>with respect. Its leaders are wise and<\/p>\n<p>farseeing. The best possible congress<\/p>\n<p>is one that legislates with conscience<\/p>\n<p>and compassion. Its laws are clear and<\/p>\n<p>just\u2014and the rules apply to everyone.<\/p>\n<p>In this ideal world, people are also<\/p>\n<p>able to govern themselves justly. What does it mean to govern ourselves? It<\/p>\n<p>means we are in charge of our own<\/p>\n<p>thoughts and responsible for our own<\/p>\n<p>actions. We refuse to walk blindly<\/p>\n<p>through life. We see exactly what is<\/p>\n<p>and not merely what we prefer to see.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t permit the past to take command of the present. We view our personal reality the way a great artist<\/p>\n<p>would\u2014with an eye for beauty and<\/p>\n<p>balance.<\/p>\n<p>In an ideal world, we don\u2019t punish<\/p>\n<p>ourselves repeatedly for one mistake.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t indulge in self-pity. We don\u2019t<\/p>\n<p>manipulate emotions. We don\u2019t gossip or seek out drama. In an ideal world, we have no de-<\/p>\n<p>sire to judge or to blame. We are not<\/p>\n<p>defeated by guilt and shame, nor do<\/p>\n<p>we inflict shame on anyone else. In<\/p>\n<p>other words, we govern ourselves in<\/p>\n<p>the same way we want to be governed:<\/p>\n<p>with respect.<\/p>\n<p>There is much more we could say<\/p>\n<p>about that ideal world, but it\u2019s impor-<\/p>\n<p>tant to consider why this world<\/p>\n<p>doesn\u2019t actually exist for most of us.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>THE THREE QUESTIONS<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>DON MIGUEL RUIZ<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We humans are certainly made our mark on this planet. And yet, if we were asked what we had to show for humanity\u2019s years of evolution, what would we say? Would we say that we\u2019re free of worry and conflict? 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