{"id":33971,"date":"2019-11-19T00:09:52","date_gmt":"2019-11-18T22:09:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/?p=33971&#038;lang=en"},"modified":"2019-11-20T10:41:03","modified_gmt":"2019-11-20T08:41:03","slug":"the-wife-says-darling-but-behind-the-word-darling-are-dresses-she-is-thinking-about-them-1372","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/the-wife-says-darling-but-behind-the-word-darling-are-dresses-she-is-thinking-about-them-1372\/?lang=en","title":{"rendered":"The wife says, &#8220;Darling&#8221;, but behind the word darling are dresses; she is thinking about them (OSHO)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>One should not act or speak as if he were asleep.<\/p>\n<p>This is the only key.<\/p>\n<p>The waking have one world in common; sleepers have each a private world of his own.<\/p>\n<p>Dreams are private, absolutely private! Nobody can enter into your dream. You cannot share a dream with your beloved. Husbands and wives, they sleep on one bed but dream separately.<\/p>\n<p>It is impossible to share a dream because it is nothing.<\/p>\n<p>How can you share a nothing? Just like a bubble, it is absolutely nonexistential.<\/p>\n<p>You cannot share it, you have to dream alone.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why, because of sleepers, so many sleepers, there exist so many worlds. You have your own world; if you are asleep you live enclosed in your own thoughts, concepts, dreams, desires. Whenever you meet another, two worlds clash; worlds in collision &#8212; this is what the situation is.<\/p>\n<p>Look at a husband and a wife talking; they are not talking at all. The husband is thinking about the office, the salary; the wife is thinking about her dresses for Christmas. Inside they have their own private worlds, but their private worlds meet somewhere &#8212; clash rather &#8212; because the wife&#8217;s dresses will depend on the salary of the husband, and the husband&#8217;s salary has to provide for the wife&#8217;s dresses.<\/p>\n<p>The wife says, &#8220;Darling&#8221;, but behind the word darling are dresses; she is thinking about them. The &#8220;darling&#8221; doesn&#8217;t mean that which is written in the dictionary, because every time a woman says &#8220;darling&#8221; this is now just a facade and the husband immediately becomes afraid. He does not show it, of course, because when someone says &#8220;darling&#8221; you cannot show it. He says, &#8220;What is it, dear? How are you?&#8221; But he is afraid because he is thinking of his salary, and he knows Christmas is coming and there is danger.<\/p>\n<p>Mulla Nasruddin&#8217;s wife was saying to him, &#8220;What has happened? Lately I even cry and weep and tears roll down my face and you don&#8217;t even ask, &#8216;Why are you weeping?'&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nasruddin said, &#8220;Enough is enough! &#8212; it costs too much to ask. And in the past I have committed that mistake so many times, because those tears are not just tears &#8212; dresses, a new house, new furniture, a new car, many things are hidden behind those tears. Those tears are just a start.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>No dialogue is possible because there are two private worlds inside. Only conflict is possible.<\/p>\n<p>Dreams are private, truth is not private.<br \/>\nTruth cannot be private.<\/p>\n<p>Truth cannot be mine or yours<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Awareness: The Key to Living in Balance<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>OSHO<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>One should not act or speak as if he were asleep. This is the only key. 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