{"id":23808,"date":"2023-07-28T03:02:59","date_gmt":"2023-07-28T00:02:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/?p=23808&#038;lang=en"},"modified":"2023-07-28T01:06:19","modified_gmt":"2023-07-27T22:06:19","slug":"go-ahead-and-look-and-look-and-look-but-youre-not-going-to-find-them-out-there-657","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/go-ahead-and-look-and-look-and-look-but-youre-not-going-to-find-them-out-there-657\/?lang=en","title":{"rendered":"Go ahead and look and look and look, but you\u2019re not going to find them out there! (LEO BUSCAGLIA)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We believe that everything there is to find is out there in the light where it\u2019s easy to find, when the only answers for\u00a0you\u00a0are\u00a0in you!\u00a0 Go ahead and look and look and look, but you\u2019re not going to find them out there! Nobody has your answers\u2014only\u00a0you\u00a0have your answers.\u00a0 And if you think you can pack up your bag and escape\u00a0you, you\u2019re in for a mighty big surprise.\u00a0 Run to a mountaintop in Nepal, and when you get over the wonder of being in Nepal, who are you faced with in the mirror? You!\u00a0 With all your hangups, with all your fears, with all your confusion, with all your loneliness, with all the things that\u00a0you\u00a0are.\u00a0 So it\u2019s time to begin looking where it makes sense to look.\u00a0 What is essential is not out there.\u00a0 What is essential is indeed in you. \u00a0But it&#8217;s frightening inside and\u00a0dark, and it&#8217;s not easy to search in the dark. And nobody teaches us how. That doesn&#8217;t mean you should waste time looking where you will never find it. How many classes did you ever have in your entire educational career that taught you about you? They taught you mathematics, and I&#8217;m not saying that\u00a0that is not essential, but you can live without it. Did you know that? It&#8217;s nice to be able to read, but you can also live very joyously without being\u00a0able to read. I&#8217;m not encouraging\u00a0you not to learn how to read, even though many of you spent years learning how, and now you don&#8217;t read anyway. Statistics show that the average university graduate -and this is going to shock you-reads maybe one book a year after graduation.<\/p>\n<p>There are no classes in life, there are no classes in love, there are no classes in &#8220;I Am Lonely. What Can I Do? 1A&#8221;\u00a0And when you try to teach these classes, I&#8217;swear to you, you are treated like you are some sort of a fool. I&#8217;ve been labeled by the media, &#8220;The Love Doctor. Good grief! And supposedly \u00a0one of the greatest honors came to me when I received a letter\u00a0asking me to appear on &#8220;What&#8217;s My Line?&#8221; I mean it! I swear! &#8220;What&#8217;s My Line. And the person said &#8220;They&#8217;ll never guess you!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Go into a library and gather\u00a0up all the holy books and sit down and read them\u00a0for commonalities. How marvelous! There are so many commonalities!\u00a0Jesus said, \u201cIf you want to find life you\u201fve got to look inside you. Buddha said it. The Hebraic Holy Books say it. The Koran, The Gita. The Tibetan Book of the Dead, the Tao \u2013 they all remind you of this. Trips outside of you are worthless. They are what lead off into the forest where you are going to be lost. If you want answers for you, the answers are inside, not outside.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Living Loving and Learning<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>Leo Buscaglia<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We believe that everything there is to find is out there in the light where it\u2019s easy to find, when the only answers for\u00a0you\u00a0are\u00a0in you!\u00a0 Go ahead and look and look and look, but you\u2019re not going to find them out there! 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