{"id":21874,"date":"2017-05-01T00:02:17","date_gmt":"2017-04-30T21:02:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/?p=21874&#038;lang=en"},"modified":"2017-04-30T20:34:30","modified_gmt":"2017-04-30T17:34:30","slug":"it-doesnt-matter","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lecturesbureau.gr\/1\/it-doesnt-matter\/?lang=en","title":{"rendered":"It doesn&#8217;t matter."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s talk about risk, because risk is so nice. Once you begin to become hooked on risk , your whole life changes. But change and growth take place only when you&#8217;re willing to risk and experiment with your own life. You&#8217;re never sure of anything. Everything&#8217;s a risk.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nI remember many years ago I sold everything that I had\u2014much against everybody&#8217;s advice. I wanted to go around the world. I wanted to hear a crystal-clear temple bell in Nepal. I wanted to sit in a rice paddy in Thailand and talk to people, or at least hug them. And I did. I sold my insurance policy, my house, my car, everything I owned. And I went. People said, &#8220;Oh my goodness. You gave up your secure job. You&#8217;re never going to find another job. You&#8217;re going to starve when you come home.&#8221; I came home with about ten cents. I didn&#8217;t starve, I learned. So much important were the things that I learned. I learned about attitudes. In Bangkok they say mah-pen-lai. I heard people say, &#8220;mah-pen-lai&#8221; all over the place. I wondered, &#8220;What&#8217;s this mah-pen-lai stuff?&#8221; Finally, when I got acquainted with some Thai people, I said, &#8220;There&#8217;s a phrase I keep hearing in the place, in the airport, in the museums, on the canals, on the rivers, mah-pen-lai\u2014what does it mean?&#8221; They sort of smiled, and said, &#8220;It means &#8216;it&#8217;s all right, it doesn&#8217;t matter.&#8217; &#8221; All in a sudden it dawned on me. My goodness! No wonder they&#8217;re called the land of smiles, if so many people can say, &#8220;It&#8217;s all right, it doesn&#8217;t matter.&#8221; And then I thought about our culture where everything matters. &#8220;What do you mean, it doesn&#8217;t matter?!If you think it doesn&#8217;t matter, it&#8217;s because you&#8217;re frivolous!&#8221; It doesn&#8217;t matter. The world will go on without you. Ninety percent of what we worry about doesn&#8217;t happen anyway. And we worry and we worry and we worry. And then we worry about worrying!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<strong><em>Living, Loving &amp; Learning<\/em><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><em>Leo Buscaglia<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Image: <span class=\"irc_su\" dir=\"ltr\">Thai Girl Portrait, by David Lazar, Thailand, Nikon D700<\/span> | http:\/\/www.photoburst.net\/photo_section\/photos\/marked1200\/thailand-thai-girl-portrait-nikon-d700-david-lazar.jpg<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s talk about risk, because risk is so nice. Once you begin to become hooked on risk , your whole life changes. But change and growth take place only when you&#8217;re willing to risk and experiment with your own life. 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